So straight out the gate: I don’t ever really flirt (yes, even if I like the girl). And I’m not sure whether I should change strategies. So hence my question.

Note: I am a guy.

Edit: Thank you all for your input. I have come to the realisation I need to let the other party (better) know I am romantically interested in them. Either by means of flirtation or otherwise.

  • DjMeas@lemm.ee
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    6 days ago

    When I went on the first few dates with my now-wife, I did not flirt with her as in try to tease her or do anything overtly sexual.

    I honestly think I won her over because how enthusiastic I was about telling stories. She said I was so charming because of how passionate and animated I was while telling her about myself that she could see how confident and content I was.

    Prior to meeting her at 35, I had never had a girlfriend and had only ever gone on 2 dates.