hexaflexagonbear [he/him]@hexbear.net to chapotraphouse@hexbear.netEnglish · 4 months agoAge gap discourse has unironically gone too farhexbear.netimagemessage-square117linkfedilinkarrow-up1166arrow-down12
arrow-up1164arrow-down1imageAge gap discourse has unironically gone too farhexbear.nethexaflexagonbear [he/him]@hexbear.net to chapotraphouse@hexbear.netEnglish · 4 months agomessage-square117linkfedilink
minus-squareMardoniush [she/her]@hexbear.netlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up9·4 months agoI’ve seen it work, people do fall in love with people very different from them. But I do think literally everything else needs to look ok, and regardless “still in undergrad” should be a giant red flag.
minus-squareRiffraffintheroom [none/use name]@hexbear.netlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up5·4 months ago still in undergrad" should be a giant red flag. ???
minus-squareMardoniush [she/her]@hexbear.netlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up8·4 months agoIf you’re more than a few years out of undergrad, that is. My personal line where I’ll start critiquing friends actions is that. My own is way, way closer to my own age (old)
minus-squareRiffraffintheroom [none/use name]@hexbear.netlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up1·4 months agoOh okay. Thought you were shitting on people for entering/graduating late.
I’ve seen it work, people do fall in love with people very different from them.
But I do think literally everything else needs to look ok, and regardless “still in undergrad” should be a giant red flag.
???
If you’re more than a few years out of undergrad, that is. My personal line where I’ll start critiquing friends actions is that. My own is way, way closer to my own age (old)
Oh okay. Thought you were shitting on people for entering/graduating late.