AI girlfriend bots are already flooding OpenAI’s GPT store::OpenAI’s store rules are already being broken, illustrating that regulating GPTs could be hard to control

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    8 months ago

    As if dehumanization of men wasn’t just as bad.

    You know, I saw a pic posted somewhere recently saying something about not liking bodybuilders and unrealistically cool guys, those she likes are absolutely normal and casual, like guys on the picture.

    And guys on the picture are Hollywood actors, LOL, in very good form, with no signs of sleep deprivation and tiredness, with a selling smile and the photos are likely edited on top of that.

    And the totally realistic and normal expectation of many women towards men is that if a woman has a moment of weakness and pain, then it’s her personality to be proud of, and if a man has that, then he should accept being dumped for that moment alone as a man.

    I actually think it absolutely mirrors the dehumanization of women. All the same things.

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      8 months ago

      You are losing sight of the discussion to frame it as a “men vs women” thing. This will also feed into the dehumanization of men because it will also generated “ideal” impossible men.

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        8 months ago

        N-nah. But if we get back to the root of this discussion - I’ve read lots of fanfiction in my life. Mostly written by girls for girls. Taboons of imagined idealized men right there.

        And about imagined idealized women - men write fanfiction (and other fiction) too.

        So I just don’t see how such bots are bad, except they are not real.

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      8 months ago

      You know, i’ve noticed over my 40+ years that the vast majority of men are unnattractive. Men like to rate women on a scale but i just do a yes or no and 97% are no. But they still get girlfriends, get married and have kids. Ignore the women who care about looks because they seem to be a tiny minority.

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        8 months ago

        Ignore the women who care about looks because they seem to be a tiny minority.

        I didn’t have to do that anyway, my problems in this area result mostly from my own mistakes, but one can’t just abruptly stop making them.

        Though I think I actually get something right, after the dust settles I still rather like (as people) everybody for whom I felt something.