• HellsBelle@sh.itjust.works
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    30 days ago

    Years went by. I had two sons, and my beliefs became more entrenched. I stopped engaging in conversation with people on the other side of the debate—they treated me like I was a danger to society. No one listened. No one sat down with me and said, “I hear you, I understand your fears, but here’s what we know.” And you can’t have a productive conversation if one side is talking down and the other is emotionally cornered. There was never space for me to explain the root of my fear.

    So, I pulled closer to the people who treated me like I mattered. That’s how it starts. Not with a rejection of science, but with a crack in the trust. And, inevitably, someone else is there to fill the gap.

    That’s about as honest an answer I’ve ever read.

    • HubertManne@piefed.social
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      So I believe that is some said “I hear you, I understand your fears, but here’s what we know.” she would have viewed that as an attack or something because I have seen reasonable discourse get shutdown. At best you get. Well thats your opinion. She likes to think she would have reacted reasonably to such a thing but I have much doubt in that from my experience with folks.