Cool your wife is into de googling! My wife thinks I’m a conspiracy nut. I have custom domains on proton and its been great, but with their moves toward AI and crypto who knows. I would probably try tuta if I was setting it up now - but who knows if they will eventually go wonkey then you will wish you self hosted anyway 🤝

Also very impressed with desec!

Ive been using Zola for a bit now and love it. Very simplistic. Could be worth a look but simple pages can be html or markdown. Couldnt be much simpler. Super fast to build

If at all possible see if you can do wireguard yourself. Tailscale is basically inserting a third party company for no reason as its just wireguard with their servers involved. For example if you can run opnsense its easy to get running via the GUI. Very rewarding!

The brakes on electric cars are not magic software defined wizardry they are normal hydraulics… so if one was to push hard on the brake pedal even with the motors engaged it would slow down. And it would be extremely easy to prove because the pads would be heavily worn presumably if he was stamping on them and the motors were so powerful to keep it at 30!

“Old man cant drive new car” until there is some more evidence. Sad really! Thanks for sharing for the lol