

For me this sounds a bit paranoid. We dont live in a homophobic society anymore so I don’t think that this is the main reason for most people who are against surrogacy. Gay married couples can adopt children here, its not easy (as its not easy in general to adopt children) but its possible.









Most unlikely your body wants to learn Mandarin… Anyways a part of you wants it…
Its all about integration of different parts that learned to go alone into the world without taking the other parts into account. So listening to your body (basically perceptions) is important but not the solution. More important is the listening itself and the process of trying to find out what resonates with many parts of me. Then go for a good compromise or deal. That’s quite hard but you stop loosing yourself and build up integrity.