Put yourself in their shoes, some guy dates one of their daughters for 6 years and then has a breakup and goes for the younger child. Would you be fine if someone did this with your children? I would wonder about the motives of that guy and also that is also a real betrayal from you towards your sister. It’s actually a pretty fucked up situation that any parent would justifiably take issue with, I would never ever trust the guy, how long before he hurts the next daughter? Was he attracted to her when she was a teenager and waiting for the right time? Why should my other daughter have to see her ex every time with her sister, why would her sister think this is ok? And as someone older, the first year is always all roses and means jack shit. After several years you see who people really are and you become comfortable to be your true self, you don’t know the guy but your sister after 6 years will definitely know him. I would have a long talk with her, see what you’re really getting into long term. And remember your parents have experienced life, you see through a lot of bullshit with age, you’re practical still a kid at 25. I know I was a total moron at that age.
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It will be a grey CHR or Rav4 when I can finally afford it 🙈
Siegehammer85@lemmy.worldto Global News@lemmy.zip•How Gen Z is taking the fight for their rights from TikTok to the streetsEnglish37·7 days agoFighting to keep a weapon that makes the population dumber, spreads misinformation, destroys attention span and is a Chinese government surveillance tool…
Siegehammer85@lemmy.worldto Showerthoughts@lemmy.world•The person who will be the oldest person alive in the year 2100 is already probably already like 25 years old.49·7 days agoI’d say probably older, some poor millennial will probably be 115 and asked what they think helped them live that long.
Siegehammer85@lemmy.worldto Games@lemmy.world•Shortly After Xbox Game Pass Prices Spiked, the Page to Cancel Game Pass Subscriptions Was OverwhelmedEnglish8·7 days agoI work in the IT software licensing industry, it’s a fucking cancer I can’t wait to fail so bad that when we have the first extended internet outage failure so bad that it shows the world that subscriptions are a liability that shouldn’t exist
Oh boy am a I glad we’re not IRL friends because this would really upset my wife with her Ferrari red Seat Ibiza 😂
Siegehammer85@lemmy.worldto Not The Onion@lemmy.world•Florida schools will test armed drones this fall to thwart shootersEnglish5·8 days agoI’ve been predicting that terrorist (aka conservatives in the US) will start using them from long range soon. I’m surprised that this didn’t start happening sooner but I guess people of that disposition aren’t very clever so it’s taken a whole lot longer to catch on.
Siegehammer85@lemmy.worldto Games@sh.itjust.works•EA's new owners are making "a huge bet" on generative AI cost-cutting to help repay a $20 billion loan, claims reportEnglish16·8 days agoI just uninstalled EA launcher because it’s a fucking cancer and I see this afterwards… If it’s not on Steam it’s piracy material from here on out. Fuck all other launchers/services except GoG, GoG is cool too.
Siegehammer85@lemmy.worldto United Kingdom@feddit.uk•Britons believe the UK is seen by the rest of the world as ‘weak’ and ‘soft touch’English71·10 days agoYeah, as someone who’s lived there and outside, 100% correct. Seen as weak and it’s citizens are seen and loud, stupid and ignorant. The dried residue of a wet fart let go by a long dead empire but it also matters so little now and the world is focused on the orange shart released by collective stupidity of the US, another soon to be dead empire if history is anything to go by.
Siegehammer85@lemmy.worldtopolitics @lemmy.world•'Can you imagine the disdain?' Ex-GOP insider says Pete Hegseth setting stage for a 'coup'7·11 days agoThat’s been my theory too, invasion and occupation of all blue states. Maybe rounding up and imprisoning/killing every registered democrat and anyone else that looks woke/undesirable. I hope I’m wrong and it’s just some ego stroking exercise.
Siegehammer85@lemmy.worldto World News@lemmy.world•South Korea scrambles to restore services after major state data centre fireEnglish4·12 days agoThis is the new norm, only a matter of time before the great internet outage and suddenly it’s a race to move everything back on prem and get rid of always online subscriptions/licensing.
Siegehammer85@lemmy.worldto Technology@lemmy.world•Trump says TikTok should be tweaked to become “100% MAGA”English17·13 days agoMAGA youth recruitment and education platform
Heladoius (as it was in Spain) or Ice-creamius
There is a hollow grass based solution used in asia which requires zero processing beyond cutting, drying and packaging. But I’ll keep the paper straws if the billionaires have to travel in paper planes and boats.
Siegehammer85@lemmy.worldto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Is it racist to oppose illegal immigrants?11·13 days agoI’d argue no, if you have valid reasons and lets not kid ourselves even though there is enough wealth in the world to have everyone live comfortably, thats not the game the wealthy and their puppet politicians play. They want us cheap and desperate and immigrants are just another tool to achieve this objective.
Until it’s deemed illegal to block ads and you lose points on your social credit rating, more bodies for the corporate prison system.
Siegehammer85@lemmy.worldto World News@lemmy.world•Drone incursions in Denmark were 'hybrid attack'English4·14 days agoNo, lacks the big dick energy that would confuse the audience.
Siegehammer85@lemmy.worldto World News@lemmy.world•'Nightmare bacteria' (Bacteria that are difficult to treat due to the so-called NDM gene) cases are increasing in the USEnglish3·15 days agoStrong dose of prayer and a good session of getting mad at things (basically everything) they don’t understand.
Siegehammer85@lemmy.worldtopolitics @lemmy.world•Trump Supporters Are Lying About Biden ‘Censorship’ To Justify Brendan Carr’s Unconstitutional Kimmel Threats25·16 days agoGood old joke - how do you know a Republican is lying? Their lips are moving
Can we interest you in watching paint dry? It’s as action packed as the EU defending itself.