Sorry for being late on this, but I saw some decrepit struggle sessoin from a while ago and wanted to add on. Also I want to make sure everybody on this site knows, especially with the new bluesky folks arriving, but NOBODY SHOULD FEEL BAD FOR INCELS.

You seriously have no excuse. There are actual adults who partake in this shit. I have been rejected and/or dumped by everybody I have shown romantic interested in, and not once in my life has it ever, EVER crossed my mind (nat even once) that, “oh, gee! i get it now! it’s those dumb women that are the problem!” because it isn’t hard to have a shred of fucking empathy and realise that people have free will, and you aren’t entitled to anything, ESPECIALLY NOT PEOPLE. I cannot stress this enough,

INCELS THINK THEY ARE ENTITLED TO PEOPLE. HUMAN BEINGS

I don’t care how much you think men get rejected more than women do (not true at all), or if society supposedly just made them this way (re: people have free will), or any justification you have to be nice to incels, THEY DO NOT DESERVE IT. THEY SHOULD LEARN TO TREAT PEOPLE AS HUMANS, NOT AS SEX TOYS.

tl;dr, if you’re an incel, disrespectfully fuck off and die.

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  • ShimmeringKoi [comrade/them]@hexbear.net
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    At the risk of summoning UlyssesT to kick my ass for using this comparison, I view incels and fascists like zombies. I have sympathy for the children they once were and the people they could have been, but once the change happens it’s just a waste of feeling, and you can only think about who they want to hurt.

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    7 days ago

    I think a lot of people hear incel and think “socially awkward young man” and relate to them. Those people need to realize that incel is more than just the sob story narrative that incels paint about the world. Their ideological is fundamentally reactionary and misogynistic.

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      you fail to understand that the average Hexbear can ignite a site-wide struggle session over a single (or even a couple) comment. this is our power comrade.

      never forget this site had a week-long struggle session about outdoor cats because one person made a comment saying that they trap outdoor cats in their neighborhood and get them neutered/spayed. (that is not verbatim but it was along those lines lmao)

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    I feel “sorry” for the people who were sucked into that stuff young, and never had healthy relationships with women. It’s less a “oh, poor them” and more “wow, what a lot of wasted potential. You could’ve been a decent human being and now look at you.”