If my parents ever saw my hexbear posting history, they would make me into history. I have to post this story though, I have to get the word out.

Before I started HRT (in the ancient time period known as 2024), I used to semi-frequently visit this gay hookup spot, because, well, quick and easy sex. Plus I could try to “act like a girl” (everytime I was done, I felt like shit and felt like I was “dirty”. I have no idea what compelled me to put myself through this torture). Putting aside the depressing stuff though …

The best sex I had was with this foot fetishist guy. It’s not my proudest moment, but the one time I actually enjoyed sex with another person was when they actually tried to please me instead of me doing all the work. It just so happened to be that this person’s idea of pleasing me was … sucking on my toes. Like, at first he tried sucking on my dick (which I ended up hating). He tried sucking on my nipples, which felt much better. Then, somehow, he got the bright idea to pull off my shoes (yes, I was having sex nude except for shoes), proceeded to call my feet beautiful, then just went ham on them.

I was completely blindsided, and against the idea. But good lord I had no idea that having your toes sucked felt that good. It was somehow better than having my nipples sucked. Imma be real with y’all, we sleeping on the foot fetish people. This was the biggest case of “don’t judge a book by its cover” I ever experienced. I mean, I still won’t suck toes, but I have to give due respect to the foot fetishists. I wasn’t familiar with your game.

  • fanbois [he/him]@hexbear.netEnglish
    25·
    15 days ago

    I think it’s a bad rep, because people (ofc especially women) would like to have at least some body parts that aren’t immediately sexualized, but now you even have to think about the beach pic of your feet in the sand.

    Bare feet are seen as very innocuous… Until the feet people show up, are horny on main, put them in a wiki, give them a rating and catalogue all the feet pics.

    In bed it definitely falls for me under the “if it brings you joy, we’ll find a way” category.

    • 7bicycles [he/him]@hexbear.netEnglish
      16·
      15 days ago

      I think this fact is interwoven with the fact that it’s also the most “niche” fetish you can know about at like 5 drinks deep at the office christmas party without being labeled the office pervert instantly for your knowledge about it existing, irregardless of whether it is your thing at all. It’s sort of common knowledge enough that people might chime in to validate you are not the sex freak for knowing this, but not mainstreamed enough like BDSM after 50 Shades that you can do naughty jokes about it

    • peppersky [he/him, any]@hexbear.netEnglish
      8·
      15 days ago

      It gets a bad rep because foot fetish guys are the only guys who feel like their completely sexual fetish is somehow also non-sexual enough to write every random female-presenting person on Facebook if they would sell feet pics for cash