Ok, fair it wasn’t productive to challenge your credentials and it hurt my point.

The genuine part that matters to my point is that there are and are going to be a lot more negative emotions around this, because this is about grief.

I get defensive because sometimes it feels like people want to exclude negativity as an axiom to a sober conversation about our future.

I hope I am wrong, my opinion is always evolving, but right not I think is a time to speak honestly about how negative things are shrugs.