• eestileib@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    23 hours ago

    I told one of my friends that I’m being looked at differently in crowds now, and he just said “no you’re imagining it”.

    Many people just do not believe what trans people tell them. At all.

    • Wanderer@lemm.ee
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      5 hours ago

      Honestly people are probably just looking at you wondering if you are trans.

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      11 hours ago

      In that specific case it might’ve been an answer to “Do you look at me differently now”, brains like to short-circuit like that, and not everybody is comfortable speaking for the tribe. “Does the tribe like me?” – “Well I do” – “Does the tribe?” – “I’m not the tribe”.

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      14 hours ago

      Women aren’t believed, are you a trans woman? If so it could be either that you’re a woman or that you’re trans.

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        14 hours ago

        (I hope not to misgender either but) bro, she knows. No need to mansplain it, read it again:

        Many people just do not believe what trans people tell them. At all.