I wonder what causes people who once thought they’d spend their life together to not want to do that anymore.
Has your partner change? Or did they not change when you expected them to? Have you changed?
Have you not noticed each others’ flaws when love was young and the pink glasses still worked and only discovered them later?
And what can your experience teach us about our own relationships?
My ex wife made a claim that I hit her. She thought it would help her win the divorce.
Officially I have to check the box on forms saying yes I have in fact EVER been charged with domestic violence.
I’m the only person involved with a memory of the event she made up, because I have to maintain records of it and charges being dropped and everything. For work.
Investigators ask me, I have to say yes. I describe the situation and what happened and they give me the side eye “yeah sure ok, wife beater” and then my ex-wife doesn’t even remember the situation.
The good news is I have sole custody of our child. A judge saw the real of it when it mattered.