The owner kind of makes a weak attempt to seem like they’re trying, but if I weren’t there, they wouldn’t intervene at all. I’m asking because I want to make sure that I don’t over react next time.

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    Lot’s of comments about dominance. This is an old erronous theory about dog behaviour based on a botched study. Dogs hump for many reasons, sexual is the obvious one, but also being nervous or poorly socialised.

    What you should do is stop the behaviour, move your dog or theirs away and tell the owner to come get their dog.

    If it happens in certain scenarios you can also stop it before the behaviour, so a common scenario is two dogs are playing, one dog gets overstimulated and then jumps on to hump, in that scenario you’d want to watch for earlier signs of overstimulation, wanting to stop, panting heavily, whale eyes, and stopping the play at that point.

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      This.

      People are inherently irresponsible. Dog owners, not all but many, simply think having the animal makes it a pet.

      Call that motherfucker out on his irresponsible behavior not tending his own animal.

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    My dog was a big tall greyhound, and one time he was humped by another dog - a tiny Yorkshire terrier. It was clinging to his hock (ankle) and banging away for dear life, while my dog ignored it. Its owner and I were both laughing too hard to do anything about it, it was a ludicrous sight.

    Sorry not to be more helpful.

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      Are you suggesting that I leave the dog park because their dog is not neutered and they wont control their dog’s behavior?

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        Either that or talk to other owners at the park about collectively shunning the problematic owner. It sounds harsh but I’ve seen this work and it’s preferable to giving up a beloved community hangout just because of one asshole.

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          My goodness me.

          “Talk to all the other people at the park and turn them against one other person in order to avoid an awkward conversation with said person”.

          If someone at the park told me to avoid some other person because their dog is a humper I world tell them to grow up.

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            I’m assuming OP has already asked the problem owner to stop and they are refusing to control their dog properly. Obviously talking to them comes first.

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              You could take photos of the dog humping your dog and make posters & flyers warning everyone.

              Better yet, you could post to your local “mother’s chat” Facebook group and let them resolve it

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        Would feel pretty horrifying if it were humans in the dog’s place. I’d either tell the owner to get their dog to knock it off or find a new park with better trained dogs (and owners). :P

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        Literally if you can’t handle the dog park don’t go there. This is pretty much why we don’t go the the dog park when it is crowded as well.

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    If anything does something to your dog you don’t agree with you are fully entitled to remove that thing from being near your dog. Grab the other dog by the collar and drag it away (not yanking, controlled movements).

    If the owner of the other dog gets angry at this then state that you wouldn’t have had to do so if they had the skills to keep their dog having good behaviour. Some times people need a verbal slap in the face to even start thinking about if they should do better. They won’t agree with you in the situation, but it may help effect some change in their behaviour over time.

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    Ideally your dog should tell the other dog that it won’t have it. Some times it takes longer than others for this to happen. For some dogs though this never happens

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      This is such a spot-on response. In addition to another in this thread (stating you are allowed to and should control the situation), it’s 100% acceptable for a dog to correct another. Some dog owners see any “bad” interactions as aggressive but dogs can’t learn to interact well without correcting each other. Unless it escalates into a legitimate fight, they should be allowed to work it out.

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    Hold their dog’s collar and don’t let go until the owner gets the hint. Just hold their dog in place. It’s not hurting the animal but it’s also not something the owner can just ignore.

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    Put yourself between it and your dog. Mounting is an act to show dominance. Be the more dominant dog.

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    Happens occasionally when I’m walking my dog.

    My dog will let the other one know when she’s had enough nonsense.

    IMHO find a way to get over it and get over it.