I wonder what causes people who once thought they’d spend their life together to not want to do that anymore.
Has your partner change? Or did they not change when you expected them to? Have you changed?
Have you not noticed each others’ flaws when love was young and the pink glasses still worked and only discovered them later?
And what can your experience teach us about our own relationships?
Understanding and addressing attachment styles is one of the most rewarding gifts to give yourself. It’s hard, messy, necessary work. I’m glad you invested in yourself and cultivated a healthier relationship.