Looking for:
- no misogynists (so dbzer0 is out)
- no libertarians, no marxist lenninsts, no tankies, no rightwingers
- people who understand climate change is real
- leftists including anarchists, social democrats, democratic socialists, communists, etc are great
I picked world bc I was told it would have the most activity. Since joining Lemmy I have been repeatedly harassed by men on this instance, threatened with murder and rape by users including open Nazis (this was also happening on Reddit), and permabanned for being a woman, for being a feminist, and for not breaking any rules and posting factual news sources. Would like a better instance.
Have been considering solarpunk Lemmy but willing to consider other instances, just not sure
Eta: I’m looking for a recommendation of an instance, not your personal opinion on my experiences or feelings. If you are not going to give me the name of an instance you’d recommend, don’t comment.
Here’s an article on tone policing: https://www.housing.wisc.edu/2023/12/inclusive-language-series-tone-policing-2/
• You need to recognize the indicators of tone policing, such as telling someone to calm down or to lower their tone for their message to be better received.
• Understand that various levels of emotions will often be expressed, especially during political or hot topic conversations.
• To refrain from invalidating other people’s feelings, try self-reflecting on your desire to invalidate their emotions and think about if this is due to your own discomfort.
• Tone policing must stop, especially when engaging in conversations regarding experiences with discrimination, oppression, and racism.
Here’s an article on hysteria: https://www.bps.org.uk/psychologist/hysteria-historical-mirror-misogyny-medicine
During the early 20th century, women were thought to be unfit for politics as their biology made them prone to hysteria. The suffrage movement became linked to hysteria and mental disorder, due to propaganda from the press and the government (Iglikowski-Broad, 2018). Attempts at militancy in their pursuit for equality were branded as hysteria by anti-suffrage supporters, demonstrating how use of mental health could be used to belittle the efforts of the women at the time (Thompson, 2016).
They actually proved mine first.
You are delusional.
The truth of the world is that most people don’t really care what gender you are. And most people on the internet don’t know what your gender is until you tell them.
Fast forward to you going straight to treating people like shit, and immediately using your gender to declare anyone that pushes back as a bigot in order to avoid any and all criticism. That’s not healthy behavior. Go seek help, particularly therapy
Yes, I am soooo delusional, no one cares abiut gender, such a stupid feminist for thinking people care about gender, and that RFK Jr just said we should diagnose women with TDS (meaning he’d put them in his camps) if they choose to take Tylenol for their pregnancy isn’t a sign of the rampant sexism killing and enslaving women. /s
You would never gaslight to benefit your own sex/men with this. /s You would never say “this is nothing” like the Republicans are currently saying about sending the national guard to Portland and Chicago and possibly invoking the insurrection act. /s. No, that is not something I’ve seen thousands of men do in the last year. /s
None of you even TALK about these concerns or topics. The misogyny is transparent. You’ve spent more effort insulting me in bad faith than critcizing ANY of the current harm to women. You are clearly a misogynist, a gender fascist.
Yes, it’s all in my head as a hysterical woman. /s
My experience of sexism isn’t a debatable topic. It is simply true.
And yes, most people see my username and know I am a woman.
Seems like you failed to answer me, so go ahead and leave, I made it clear I dont like misogynists like you. Stop bothering women who don’t want to be around you. No means no.